Wise lovedecisions  are really the key to a great lovelife. says Donald Harvey. Form his twenty-five-plus years of experience as a marriage counselor—and twenty-plus years of experience as a dad—he offers this unique that reveals:

• Why it's important to "Be what you want to find"

• Why compatibility isn't the first consideration in a marriage

• Why some people just aren't marriage material (and how to tell)

• How to know when you'er ready to get serious about someone

• How to know if your current relationship is a "keeper"—six vital questions to ask

• How to know you're number-one with your one-and-only 

• How to spot—and avoid—a control freak

• How to recognize Mr. Right—for you 

• How to manage a positive break up—even if it's hard to do 

• How to make a connection between faith and intimacy